Weight is just one of those topics that are hard to bring up without offending people




Weight is just one of those topics that are hard to bring up without offending people. I believe that it is now a touchy issue, since, in 1 manner or another, people are looked down upon.


And, since a plus-size girl, I am sick of it.

Being how I am, I expect to hear a good deal of rather offensive items. I am compiling and fixing a couple here.

“Beta weight kab shedi karnay ka program hai?”

Being around the chubbier facet, I wish I had been famous for at least that. I would like one dialog with someone new or someone I’m acquainted with to be outside my weight. I would like to get asked about my passions, my passions, what I do for a living, how composing for MangoBaaz is like — maybe not when I intend on losing weight.

First off when did the word”smart” begin to explain people’s weight and physical appearance? Secondly, jokes, auntie. I’m already married, all.

My aim in life isn’t to seem like a supermodel, although in another world it would be fascinating to function as one. I’m fine with how I look today, and I am going to be fine with how I think once I have kids. My weight and how I look hasn’t revealed who I am as an individual, so why should it once I have kids? Being able to have kids are a boon for me and that’s sufficient.

I can’t tell you how often I have been told I have a pretty face but got comments like

, “If you were skinnier, you can find any man,” Tumhara moun tumhara best attribute hai, weight bhe ab theek Karlo,” etc. etc.. Everybody is beautiful just the way they are, and that I wish more people understood that.

There’s this pre-conceived belief that girls don’t like to chat about their weight loss. Even though this is accurate, I think it goes deeper than that. I’m comfortable in my skin, however, I don’t like sharing my weight since that opens the doorway for contrast to skinnier people, ridicule by someone and anybody, Shaadi walay comments back, or strain to measure on the weight machine to show your weight for everybody. The sad thing is that this comes from people which should enjoy and know you the most — your loved ones. So what if my bhabi is skinny even following a kid?


“Madam, iss size may sasty kaprey available nahi hain.”

Small, medium and large aren’t the sole dimensions for people in Pakistan. It’s uncommon to find an XL, let alone anything larger than that. To be this narrow-minded as to just carry sizes which match the ordinary individual is a step in the wrong direction.

I won’t ever know why my weight becomes the most significant subject in a dialogue, whatever the company I’m with. Another evening I had to sit through a conversation with a familiarity who has been based about my weight since I had been enjoying my carbonated beverage (soda) overly much.

She started off by detecting how I had been drinking my soda when in fact I was chewing. I simply stared at her in disbelief.

At the end of this all, I only have a question: why is my weight a problem for those around me?

Mera weight, meri wellbeing, meri issue.

This article wasn’t written to call out people in my own life, but it had been to shine a light on a problem which isn’t publicly talked about.

What I mean is that people’s weight and physical looks are publicly discussed and opinions have been shared. The thoughts that live in that plus-size person’s thoughts aren’t drawn up or even cared for. Since psychological health is so easily overlooked, the consequences we leave people by making comments like those above can consume people up. Comments like these can leave long-term scars.

There’s not any winner or loser when it comes to them.

Whether you’re calling them too large or too little, too straight or too curvy, too broad or too thin — it may all bring about things like inferior self-image, very low self-esteem, lack of confidence, and hopelessness. If you are worried, there is a means to voice yourself without being offensive.

Let’s all intention to build up each other, instead of tearing each other apart.